Many crossdressers and transgender women tell me that it was easier for them to look feminine when they were younger.
The truth is, you can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While nobody can stop the clock, there are some simple ways to shave a few years off your appearance ā if that happens to be a goal of yours.
Read on for 7 simple ways to look younger now.
1. Choose the right hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but be careful ā hair thatās too long can emphasize drooping.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair ā This length is universally flattering.
- Bangs ā Bangs are cute, youthful, and perfect for hiding forehead wrinkles.
2. Add some sex appeal
While you shouldnāt dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and flirtatious stockings.
- Choose clothes in sensuous fabrics ā like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (just not too much!).
Check out my previous article 3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at Any Age for more tips.
3. Get enough sleep

We all need our beauty sleep, but the older you get, the more a lack of sleep shows up on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and sallow skin distract from a feminine look, so be sure to make sleep a priority.
4. Add some color to your wardrobe
If you usually wear a lot of black or neutral tones, try adding some bright colors to your wardrobe. Bright colors have a youthful vibe and liven up your appearance.

5. Whiten your teeth

Teeth are a subtle cue of age ā old teeth tend to look yellow or grey.
Whitening your teeth brightens your face and takes years off of your appearance. Try Crest White Strips for cheap and easy tooth whitening.
6. Use the right skin care products
Most skin creams donāt deliver on their āmiracle in a bottleā promises. However, there are certain ingredients that have proven anti-aging benefits.

Fight wrinkles and firm your face by using products that contain one or more of the following ingredients:
- Retinol
- Vitamin C
- Hyaluronic acid
- Alpha hydroxy acid
- Green tea
You can find affordable products with these ingredients in any drug store.
7. Smile

Yes, itās trite advice, but smiling really is the fastest way to improve your appearance!
A smile lifts the cheeks and acts like an instant facelift. Smiling also gives you a pleasant look and puts people at ease ā making it easier to blend in as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look at classy, attractive women age 40+ for inspiration!
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so Iād love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Ella
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Ricki
says:As as older gal these tips about looking younger are great. I plan to look for these ingredients in my products and change up my wardrobe a bit. Next haircut may be the key for a younger look, too.
Thanks so much Mistress Ella!
Maxime
says:Thank you for all your work supporting sissy feminization Mistress Ella. I’ve learned a lot from your posts uWu
Ella
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